MORE of me..:p

1. Think of a time that you slept very late, what's the reason?
♥ doing crazy stuff on my websites

2. Are you a fan of Francis Magalona?
♥ no

3. What is the color of your laptop/computer?
♥ bLack

4. If you were to choose between the person you like and your best friend, who will you choose?
♥ both coz the one i like is my best friend..

5. Give your 5 favorite numbers
♥ 18,13,12,11,8

6. Do you know any criminal?
♥ nope

8. Have you ever hugged someone?
♥ yes

9. How old are you gonna be on your
next birthday?
♥ 24 =(

10. Do you want the person you like to be your gf/bf?
♥ i want him to be mines forever

11. Name one negative thing about you?
♥ selfish!

12. Contented in life?
♥ no..

13. Name one enemy of yours?
♥ none

14. One song that's meaningful to you?
♥ you are my king (christian song)

15. What kind of phone do you have?
♥ LG KM 555 & Samsung..du know the phone model

16. When was the last time you talked to one of your siblings?
♥ last night through a phone

17. Do you put your subject on before you type the bulletin or after?
♥ after

18. Your name spelled backwards
♥ leciram

19. Have you ever broken a bone?
♥ yah (childhood memories)

20. If you could have one thing right now what would it be?
♥ braces

21. Stupidest thing you ever did with
your cell phone?
♥ throw up in a toilet bowl after I make wiwi

22. Are you an only child or do you
have siblings?
♥ have sibLings

23. Have you ever regretted letting someone go?
♥ never tried

24. When was the last time you felt like your heart was actually breaking?
♥ august 1, 2009

25. Sunrise or Sunset?
♥ sunset

26. What would you do if you find out he or she likes someone else?
♥ nothing..

27. Ever cried for no reason?
♥yah, pampahapdi ng mata para makatulog

28. It's four in the morning and you get a text message, who is that?
♥best friend ko..:)

29. Do you have any saved texts? Who are they from and what do they say?
♥ directions on how to reach a particular place..gala kc!

30. Hate most about yourself?
♥ selfish

GOOD BOYFRIEND vs TRUE LOVE

A good boyfriend will ask to borrow your money,
Your true love will steal your eftpos card when you're not looking (he knows your PIN of course).


A good boyfriend will put on the "perfect guy" act around your parents,
Your true love will call them mum and dad, then try to move in.


A good boyfriend will kiss you in front of his mates,
Your true love will kiss you in front of your parents.


A good boyfriend will stay on the phone with you all night,
Your true love will be there beside you watching you sleep.


A good boyfriend will tell you you're pretty,
Your true love will take your makeup off you because you're already beautiful without it.


A good boyfriend will buy you presents,
Your true love will steal your stuff.


A good boyfriend will stop when you beg him to,
Your true love will keep teasing you just so he can redeem himself later.


A good boyfriend will tell you you don't need to diet because you're fine how you are,
Your true love will force you to eat.


A good boyfriend will keep any letters you give him,
Your true love will keep the half a chocolate wrapper from that day at the park.


A good boyfriend will remember your anniversary, birthday, etc.
Your true love will remember the first thing you said when you were first alone (no matter how stupid it was).


A good boyfriend will borrow a couple of games for awhile,
Your true love will borrow your phone for weeks and steal your MP3 player.



A good boyfriend will agree your teddies are cute,
Your true love will carry them around the mall with you.


A good boyfriend will help you up when you fall,
Your true love will pick you up randomly, whether you like it or not.


A good boyfriend will tell you he loves you,
Your true love won't need to.


---> reposted from my FB
date posted: 7/9/09

TEN TRENDS that kill RELATIONSHIP!

---> This time I'll be posting notes na usapang relationship naman! Just got it from my online coach Susie and Otto Collins. For my future reference na din..=)

Here are 10 trends that must be stopped if you want to keep your relationship growing deeper and more connected...

Trend #1 That MUST Be Stopped:

1. Texting while having dinner or in a conversation with someone you love.

While we love technology, we also know about being present, truly present, when you're with someone you love. And texting or scrolling through your IPhone while your loved one is talking is not being present.

In fact, this shows your loved one that the other person or topic is more important to you than he or she is.

You might argue the point, but the fact is you are sending that message, sometimes over and over, with your actions. And actions speak louder than words.


Trend # 2. Flirting with people other than your partner.

Whether it's on Facebook with someone you graduated with or a co-worker, what you might call innocent flirting can get out of hand pretty quickly.

You can end up confiding in this other person more than you do your partner. You can end up spending a lot more of your thoughts on the other person than you do on your partner.

This is certainly a recipe for relationship disaster.

If you find that you're nurturing a relationship outside your main relationship to a greater depth than you are with your partner, stop and get conscious of what you're doing. Take responsibility for where your flirting could be heading.


Trend # 3. One or both people "talk on eggshells."

When one person is afraid to be truthful and holds back part of himself or herself, there's no chance intimacy and connection can grow.

You might think that holding back so you don't hurt the other person's feelings or not "rock the boat" is keeping the peace.

The problem is that these feelings don't go away and they eventually come out in ways that are not very pleasant.


Trend # 4....

Bitching and complaining about your partner with friends, family or co-workers.

While it can feel really good to get something your partner did off your chest while you're talking with a sympathetic friend, it can do damage to your relationship if that's ALL you do about it.

Bitching and moaning keeps you in the victim mode and doesn't help your situation.

We're not saying that sometimes you can get good insights when you talk with a friend, but be sure that that is your intention instead of wanting validation that you're right.

And be sure that you address the problem with your partner so the two of you can understand one another.

Trend # 5. Not spending enough time together.

If there's one thing we preach it's that in order for your relationship to stay alive and filled with passion, you have to spend time together.

You can't keep putting everything else in your life before your relationship and expect that it will survive, let alone thrive.

Get your priorities straight and live accordingly, even if you think it's impossible right now.


Trend # 6.

Making reality shows more important than your reality.

The latest trend for television seems to be reality shows and it wouldn't be that way if we all didn't fill our hours watching them.

Now there's certainly nothing wrong with vegging out in front of the television--and nothing wrong with reality shows.

But when these shows become more important to you than you living your life, then there's a problem.

If you find yourself caring more about the Jersey Shore women or the contestants on "So You Think You Can Dance," "American Idol" or Susie's favorite "Dancing With The Stars" than you do about the people in your life...

Get a grip and start living in your life.



Trend # 7...

How predominant the "blame game" is.

We've always blamed each other from the dawn of existence. It's just human nature
to point the finger outward at the other person when things don't go according to how we
think they should.

Even though blame is normal and natural, the only thing it does is separate the two
of you and create resentment that just doesn't go away.

How do you stop the "blame game"?

You just stop. You go on a no-blame diet even if the other person doesn't. You just
don't allow yourself to blame.

This doesn't mean you're a doormat. It just means that you're going to open to connection and finding creative ways to resolve your differences.


Trend # 8 That MUST Be Stopped....

Deciding on divorce before discussion.

Most people mull over divorce for many years before they actually take steps toward it.

Sometimes they mull it over so thoroughly
in their minds, they don't give the partner
clues that they aren't happy.

We encourage you to be proactive in making your relationship what you want it to be--and include your partner in making it better--before it's too late.

When people make this decision alone, it's usually gone too far and the relationship's
beyond repair.

Get help before it's too late if this describes you.


Trend # 9...

Allowing passion and connection to die.

We believe passion doesn't have to die, no matter how old the relationship or the two
people are--if that's what they want.

There can certainly be an ebb and flow to passion in a relationship as the two people
move through various life stages--children, care of elderly parents, job changes, changes
in physical body and health.

But through all this, no matter what happens or doesn't happen in the bedroom, keeping
some consistent element of intimate connection is essential to the health of the relationship.

Now of course this varies for each couple, but what we know for sure is that if you've
been neglecting this aspect of your life, start paying it some attention.

And Finally...

# 10. Dishonoring and Disrespecting each other.

Over the years studying relationships, we've witnessed a very disturbing trend that drives
a wedge between the two people.

That trend is when one or both people—in trying to be cute, funny or for whatever reason--tear down or make fun of the other person in public.

The person who is the object of ridicule, even though it may be done as "kidding," feels
dishonored, not supported and not respected--and just plain embarrassed.

While ridicule and poking fun at someone might be funny on an "open mic" stage, it's not funny in real life.

If you've used this as a way to relate to others, stop and get conscious of how this might feel to them.

If you've been the object of this kind of treatment, tell your partner that you don't feel respected.

Our wish for you is long, healthy relationships and we invite you to not be part of perpetuating these 10 trends that kill relationships.

KAIBIGAN USAP TAYO! :)

Anu nga ba ang pakuhulugan ng salitang “kaibigan” o “friends”.

Minsan,natatanong ko sa sarili ko, pwede kaya ako magkaron ng best friend o ng mga totoong kaibigan. Ako kasi ang tipo ng tao na madaling ijudge sa kung paano ako kumilos,magsalita at magisip. Pero ganun na ata talga ang buhay e. Likas na sa mga tao ang manghusga at manlait sa kung anu nakikita nila sa iyo physically.

Immune na ako sa ganun! Bata pa lang, bugbog na ako sa mga ganyang experience. Pero I know God’s favor is with me. Ang lage ngang wika ng aking butihing ina sa tuwing uuwe ako sa aming bahay kubo at umiiyak gawa ng mga ganung bagay.

“ Ang taong nagpapakataas ay ibinababa ng Diyos at ang nagpapakumbaba ay Siya namn niyang tinataas.”

Na hanggang ngaun patuloy ko pinaniniwalaan at pinaninindigan. Ganyan tlaga ang life. Hehe..=)

I have lot of friends. They were like pebbles on the seashore I picked up along the way of my life. Parang Survivor Philippines lang din. Sa pagtagal ng panahon, unti unti kong nakikita kung sino nga ba ang magtatagal hanggang sa huli. Sino ang maiiwang kasama ko sa takbuhin ng buhay. Thanks God, I am starting to see those people that are true to me.

And they are…..

Someone who knows the song in my heart and can sing it back to me when I have forgotten the words.

They are the people whom I haven’t known since pre-school, but it doesn’t matter at all. They are the one I can go to for anything. They cheer me up whenever I am down and feeling blue. They listen to me when I have a problem and help dry the tears away from my face. They take away my sorrow and put happiness in its place. ;)

Isa akong tao na kulang sa atensyon. Wala ako kaclose sa aming bahay. In short I am a LONER. Di tulad ng iba na kapag unica hija ka, you got all the favors and closeness of your loved ones. Sad to say, I don’t belong to them. Ako ang tipo ng tao na kapag nasasaktan, magkukulong sa kwarto. Pag tinanong kung ano ang dahilan. Sasagot ng “ok lang ako”. “wla po ako problema”. Ewan ko ba! Ganito ako e. Mapagpanggap. Kahit nasasaktan na ako ng sobra sobra, pinipilit ko magpanggap na malakas at masaya. Madalas nasa kwarto lang ako, nag deday dream, lumilikha ng mga bagay na tulad ng binabasa mo ngaun.

Naghahanap ako ng atensyon at pinipilit ko abutin ang mga tao na sa palagay ko ay magpupuno ng puwang na tulad ng nasambit ko. At sila ang tinatawag kong KAIBIGAN.

Kaibigan na hindi titingnan ang kahinaan mo upang lalo ka manghina, sa halip tutulungan ka na maovercome ang mga yun.

Kaibigan na sasabihin sa ‘yo kung may uling ka sa mukha at hindi sila ung mga tao na hihilamusan ka pa ng uling para tuluyan ka maging tampulan ng tukso at panlalait.

Kaibigan na paiiyakin ka sa tawa.

Kaibigan na handa ka ipaglaban sa kung kaninuman na nang aapi sayo.

Kaibigan na magpapaka SUPERMAN o WONDERWOMAN, masagip ka lang sa panganib.

Hinde ba’t kay gandang isipin na may mga kaibigan tayo na kahit hindi naten nakakasama madalas ay pinag uugnay pa rin tayo ng pisi ng wagas na pagkakaibigan. Nakaukit sa kanya kanyang puso ang salitang “damayan”. At kahit hinde madalas naten makausap, isang lapit mo lang, anjan na sila upang makinig sa mga kwento mo na minsan ay paulit ulit na lang.

Pero hindi sa lahat ng pagkakataon, ung mga tinuturing naten kaibigan ay totoo. Un iba, balat kayo lang but for me, I don’t care about that reality. As long as I’ve been true to them, there’s no need for me to be guilt and felt so bad for so long. I’ve been good to them and when God checked on me and asked: How are you with your friends?”

I can say to Him. “I’ve been very honest, sincere and good to them my King, my Father.”

Magulo ang ideya ng obra kong ito.

Para sa mga makakabasa nito, salamat sa panahong iginugol mo upang alamin kung sino nga ba ang aking mga kaibigan. At kung isa ka sa kanila, SALAMAT at pinahintulutan mo ako na maging bahagi ng buhay mo. SALAMAT at ginamet ka ni Lord para kahit papano ay may makausap ako at mabawasan ang pagging emotera at loner ko.

Simple lang di ba? Pero ang totoo, this craft is to all the people whom I considered as my friends and also to the people who considered me as their friends.

I guess this is my way of saying thanks to you guys. For catching me when I fall and for laughing with me till we fart when I earned happy stories.

Thanks once again for being such a good friends and being there with me through it all. All of you, (can’t site the names anymore) are God’s blessings and you’ll always be with my prayers.

what i like most....

hahaha..i am a frustrated graphic artist. Yes I admit it. . NO doubt. I am just a trying hard one. And out of my frustration. Here it comes.

FIRST TRY!And frustrations turned to addictions. Explore. Explore. Experiment!

Kill the boredom! :)

I never stopped! And more and more pictures of mine were created by mine. I enjoyed so much.

LIFE GOES ON.....

This is how our life goes on…

We stumbled…

For as to stand up!

We were broken…

For as to be whole!

We were emptied…

For as to be filled!

We were lost…

For as to be found!

We were betrayed…

For as to trust!

We were disappointed...

For as to gain self esteem!

We were hurt…

For as to give more love!



No matter our life brought to us. There's one thing we ought to believe.

AND THAT IS...

Life must goes on!

Like a river flowing over the sea..

Like a flower that blooms on its season...

Like a catterpilar that will be a butterfly soon..

Like a sun that shines after a long night..

Like a rainbow that appears after a rain..

Life really must go on!

ycelah_1813

12:28pm

GOD'S PLAN..

I have read this from a website and just like to share! :))

God's Plan

Some things are beyond planning.

And life doesn't always turn out as planned.

You don't plan for a broken heart.

You don't plan for a failed business venture.

You don't plan for an adulterous husband

or a wife who wants you out of her life.

You don't plan for an autistic child.

You don't plan for spinsterhood.

You don't plan for a lump in your breast.

You plan to be young forever.

You plan to climb the corporate ladder.

You plan to be rich and powerful.

You plan to be acclaimed and successful.

You plan to conquer the universe.

You plan to fall in love - and be loved forever.

You don't plan to be sad.

You don't plan to be hurt.

You don't plan to be broke.

You don't plan to be betrayed.

You don't plan to be alone in this world.

You plan to be happy. You don't plan to be shattered.

Sometimes if you work hard enough, you can get what you want.

But MOST times, what you want and what you get are two different things.

We, mortals, plan. But so does God in the heavens.

Sometimes, it is difficult to understand God's plans especially when His plans are not in consonance with ours.

Often, when God sends us crisis, we turn to Him in anger. True, we cannot choose the cross that God wishes us to carry, but we can carry that cross with courage knowing that God will never abandon us nor send something we cannot cope with.

Sometimes, God breaks our spirit to save our soul.

Sometimes, He breaks our heart to make us whole.

Sometimes, God allows pain so we can be stronger.

Sometimes, God sends us failure so we can be humble.

Sometimes, God allows illness so we can take better care of ourselves. Sometimes, God takes everything away from us so we can learn the value of everything He gave us.

Make plans, but understand that we live by God's grace.

There is time and purpose for everything!

So, what's with December 08, 2010??

I've been asking myself why should I make a note or squiggle my mind to write again! Illusions! Deceptive! Tragic! blah blah..what else shall I add to make my reader more curious.

Suffocate!

Burned out!

Hands up!

Give up!

Or I just making the story exaggerated!

Bottom line is that I became a big “L” as in LOOSER!

I just found out myself like a brat who missed her favorite cartoon show, who broke her favorite doll, who didn’t get her extraordinary chocolates from a store. I end up doubting and questioning. Poor poor lady am I?

Cry. Burst in tears. Self-pity!

This one is too bad. Is these all I can do? I can’t do anything. And when all else subsides, I concluded that: Maybe it’s alright for me to cry so I can smile again. Maybe it’s alright for me to shout so I can be in silent again. Maybe it’s alright for me to rest so I can have a renewed strength.

Quit. Run away. Escape!

I just want to get lose. Oohhh! What’s going on? I give up. I’ll stop now. I don’t want a life like this. This is not I want. I am tired. I am weak. I don’t want anymore. I get to a point where all I can say, “I’m done trying. Enough is enough.”

Pause. Talk to Him. Pray!

What’s with me? Shame to myself. Where’s my faith after all? Where is the declaration of faith?

When I am about to sleep, a friend of mine share these bible verse that I think God really intended for me to read and dwell with the passages.

Ecclesiastes 3: 1-8.

To everything there is a season, and

a time to every purpose under heaven:

A time to be born, and

a time to die;

a time to plant, and

a time to pluck up

that which is planted;

A time to kill, and

a time to heal;

a time to break down, and

a time to build up;

A time to weep, and

a time to laugh;

a time to mourn, and

a time to dance;

A time to cast away stones, and

a time to gather stones together;

a time to embrace, and

a time to refrain from embracing;

A time to get, and

a time to lose;

a time to keep, and

a time to cast away;

A time to rend, and

a time to sow;

a time to keep silence, and

a time to speak;

A time to love, and

a time to hate;

a time of war; and

a time of peace.

Grateful. Moving on. Getting over it!

God is good all the time. There is really a time for everything. Every day may not be good... but there's something good in every day. The way I am is not the result of what has happened to me, it's the result of what I decide to keep inside me. And I have decided to keep inside me HIS promise:

Jeremiah 29:11

“For I know the plans I have for You, declares the Lord, plans to prosper you and not to harm you, plans to give you hope and a future.”

PS:

Hahaha..hinde po ako expert writer!

This is my releasing window: a zone where I am able to express what’s with me. There‘s a part of my being who likes to write. It’s half of my passion.

Kaya pasensya na sa grammar at english vocabulary ko. :)

God bless everyone!

12/9/10

12:25 pm

So this is what we called L.O.V.E ???

Sometimes, there’s come a point that we’ll be wishing to be asleep for 100 years the same with Sleeping Beauty. And just be awakened when our prince charming arrived. So as there will be no painful experiences of loving the wrong man. No sweet moments and no hurtful memories.

But…

Finding true love wasn’t easy as what the fairy tale has. Sometimes love will bring you to a situation wherein even yourself, you can’t understand and figure out who you are. We tend to love the person more than ourselves and forgot that we too are special being.

Situations itself are showing us to give up for we are hurting ourselves deeper and deeper yet we still choose to believe on our feelings. It’s already time to move on but we are still standing on the same ground

HOPING….

CLINGING….

To that very thin line of a chance that “MAYBE” someday the love of our life will be with us again.

We shut our eyes.

So as not to see the reality…

We close our ears.

So as not to hear people’s piece of advice…

We fool our heart.

So as not to feel the pain that is so vague…

Worst of it, the more we expect the more things turned into predicament. We can’t blame those people who hurt us while we are too busy creating our own love story. We are accountable to every decision that we made. If we choose to love that person and choose that love to nurture, then we don’t need to blame them if that story didn’t turn as good as happy ending with the fairytales. We can’t beg someone to stay if they want to leave and be with someone else. We have to admit that love doesn't give us the license to own a person.

This is what love means...

SACRIFICE…

In life, there are many things that we have to learn to let go. We have to let go of situations, things, memories, people and even ourselves.

We can’t say we will be standing together forever especially when situations tell us to run away. When the pain now is greater than love, we have to give our self a break. When we get tired, we have to rest. We have to ignore the feelings running through the blood vessels of our heart so as we can build a new us.

Stronger than before.

Wiser than we used to be.

We have to see that heart breaks are blessings from God... for He saves us from someone who doesn't deserved to be loved...

And if still all else fail, we have to come back from the very beginning. To the Creator who loved us though we failed Him most of the time.

For GOD is LOVE and LOVE is GOD. (1 Jo. 4:8)

If our story didn't have a happy ending same with Sleeping Beauty we should not fear to love again.

There is no fear in love. But perfect love drives out fear, because fear has to do with punishment. The one who fears is not made perfect in love. We loved because HE first loved us. (1 Jo. 4:18-19)

God is just teaching us. He will not allow us to be in a situation wherein we will gain nothing.

So cheer up ycelah! God loves you so much. :)

9/15/10

1:52 pm