So this is what we called L.O.V.E ???

Sometimes, there’s come a point that we’ll be wishing to be asleep for 100 years the same with Sleeping Beauty. And just be awakened when our prince charming arrived. So as there will be no painful experiences of loving the wrong man. No sweet moments and no hurtful memories.

But…

Finding true love wasn’t easy as what the fairy tale has. Sometimes love will bring you to a situation wherein even yourself, you can’t understand and figure out who you are. We tend to love the person more than ourselves and forgot that we too are special being.

Situations itself are showing us to give up for we are hurting ourselves deeper and deeper yet we still choose to believe on our feelings. It’s already time to move on but we are still standing on the same ground

HOPING….

CLINGING….

To that very thin line of a chance that “MAYBE” someday the love of our life will be with us again.

We shut our eyes.

So as not to see the reality…

We close our ears.

So as not to hear people’s piece of advice…

We fool our heart.

So as not to feel the pain that is so vague…

Worst of it, the more we expect the more things turned into predicament. We can’t blame those people who hurt us while we are too busy creating our own love story. We are accountable to every decision that we made. If we choose to love that person and choose that love to nurture, then we don’t need to blame them if that story didn’t turn as good as happy ending with the fairytales. We can’t beg someone to stay if they want to leave and be with someone else. We have to admit that love doesn't give us the license to own a person.

This is what love means...

SACRIFICE…

In life, there are many things that we have to learn to let go. We have to let go of situations, things, memories, people and even ourselves.

We can’t say we will be standing together forever especially when situations tell us to run away. When the pain now is greater than love, we have to give our self a break. When we get tired, we have to rest. We have to ignore the feelings running through the blood vessels of our heart so as we can build a new us.

Stronger than before.

Wiser than we used to be.

We have to see that heart breaks are blessings from God... for He saves us from someone who doesn't deserved to be loved...

And if still all else fail, we have to come back from the very beginning. To the Creator who loved us though we failed Him most of the time.

For GOD is LOVE and LOVE is GOD. (1 Jo. 4:8)

If our story didn't have a happy ending same with Sleeping Beauty we should not fear to love again.

There is no fear in love. But perfect love drives out fear, because fear has to do with punishment. The one who fears is not made perfect in love. We loved because HE first loved us. (1 Jo. 4:18-19)

God is just teaching us. He will not allow us to be in a situation wherein we will gain nothing.

So cheer up ycelah! God loves you so much. :)

9/15/10

1:52 pm