It's not the effort that makes the girl smile. It's the willingness of the guy to make those crazy efforts just to make her smile. :)

Ang “EFFORT” ay kasama sa ingredients ng relasyon. 

Sa bawat relasyon, hindi talaga mawawala na ang isa kanila lang ang nage-effort at yung isa ay hindi.

Pero dapat hindi isinusumbat sa isa’t isa kung ano yung mga nagawa mong effort para sa mahal mo.

Kasi ang effort ay may kasamang pagkukusa. Iwasan mong isumbat sa mahal mo kung ano yung mga nagawa mo para sa kaniya dahil hindi ka naman niya inutusan para mag-effort ka.Kusa mong ginawa yan para sa kanya. Oo, nagpakahirap ka dahil mahal mo siya. Pero kung talagang mahal mo siya hindi mo isusumbat sa kanya kung ano yung pagkukulang niya lalo ang hindi nya pag-appreciate. Dapat marunong tayo makuntento.

Hindi mawawala ang expectations sa relationship. Maghahangad talaga tayo na maibalik yung effort na binigay mo,kung hindi man tumbasan dapat mas lamangan.

Ano ba ang problema? APPRECIATION.
 

Minsan kasi sa sobrang taas ng expectations sa binuhos natin na effort, hindi na natin matukoy kung ano ba yung inaasahan mong appreciation na manggagaling sa taong pinagpaguran mo.

Small or big things, appreciate it, accept it. Kahit simpleng 'thank you' lang ang sinabi nya. Maging sapat na yun sayo, kasi may mga tao talaga na hindi expressive sa pagpapakita ng appreciation.

EXPECTATION leads to DISAPPOINTMENT.

Pagukulan mo ng atensyon kung ano ba talaga yung makapagpapasaya sa partner mo. Hindi yung napulot mo lang sa ibang tao ang ganito or ganyan na idea ay gagawin mo na rin sa partner mo. Para sa huli, walang panunumbat na magaganap, kasi hindi ka naman umasa, kaya wala ka rin dapat ika-disappoint.

Mag-EFFORT ka dahil mahal mo siya.
Mag-EFFORT ka ng walang inaasahang balik.
Dahil ang TUNAY na PAG-IBIG ay hindi naghihintay ng kapalit

You found me when I wasn't looking..

Is it obvious to you

When you walk into a room

Your face is all I see

And my heart races so fast

I never knew a rush to feel like that

Every time you're touching me

 

I never did believe in anything

I couldn't hold between my fingers

But the way you make me feel

It's just so real the way it lingers

 

I get lost inside your stare

Lost when you're not there

And everything I have

Doesn't mean a thing if it's without you

 

If it's a dream

Don't wake me up

I'll scream if this isn't love

If bein' lost means never knowin' how it feels without you

I wanna stay lost forever

I wanna stay lost forever.. with you.

No this feelin' doesn't end

It's with me everywhere I am

Hope it never goes away

It's like defying gravity

I'm losing all control in bein' free

And I always wanna stay

 

I never thought that I'd let go long enough

To fall for someone deeply

Who had the power to erase my fears

And find me so completely

 

 

Don't tell me where we're goin'

I don't wanna know

I like the mystery

I can't believe we've come this far

So far away from where we started off

You found me when I wasn't lookin'

You found me..

 

PAUNAWA: copy paste ko lang to from one note of my friend in facebook. this is not my owen article.


YUNG LALAKING . . . . . . . . 

Matatawag nyang bestfriend at kalaro :))




Nandiyan palagi para sa kanya ..




Palaging may surprise kahit walang okasyon ..




Hahawakan kamay nya kahit may tampuhan o away..




Isasayaw ka kahit walang music..




kaya kang ipasan kahit mabigat..




kapag masyado ka nang madaldal .. ILOVEYOU padin sasabihin nya..




Kaya kang protektahan..





Lalaking napipilit kang magpuyat para makapag usap at makapag-kwentuhan kayo ..




Magagalit sayo pero hindi ka padin iiwan..




Lalaking iiyak para sayo kasi mahal ka nya.




AT HIGIT SA LAHAT ...

Lalaking ipapanalangin ka, na sana ikaw na! ♥

TRUE LOVE would always understand pain! ;)

 

                                 "They always say love hurts, bakit sapakan ba ito?"

I can't help myself but to laugh when I read a status in FB  from one of my liked fan page that goes like this. My mind is talking and said: "oo nga naman. May sense naman." I'm pretty sure, everyone has their own stories of dealing to love and pain. And all of us has their own opinion when it comes to love and pain. Since this is a democratic country allow me to express my opinion. (Funny! Ang dame ko alam, pati pagiging demokrasyang bansa na walang kamalay malay,isinama ko pa.)

Sabi nila kapag nagmahal ka daw, expect mu na daw na masasaktan ka. Meron din naman nagsabe na kapag true love o God's perfect choice for us hinding hindi na tayo masasaktan. Ang sabe ko naman, whether we love the wrong or right person, we will feel pain. Why? Eh kase buhay tayo, in other words, matter tayo because we occupied space. HAHA, usapang Science ba ito. Pain is part of growing up. Pain is a blessing. Pain is experience. Pain is memory. Kapag nadapa tayo, malamang masakit un, minsan magkakapeklat at minsan kahit anong gawin pahid mawala lang ang peklat, may maiiwang alaala. Alaala na posibleng malungkot o kaya posibleng katawa tawa pero isa lang sigurado ako may natutunan tayo.

Love is a gift from God. We love because He first loved us (1 John 4:19). Kaya kung nasasaktan ka ngaun o nasaktan ka at masasaktan ka because you choose to love and be loved, well congratulations sa atin. Don't shutter down the door of your heart just because somebody stolen the key or didn't return anymore to open it. Bakit? Pwede naman maghanap ng nagduduplicate ng key. O kaya mas maganda palitan na lang ang door knob para muli magbukas di ba? When we invested feelings to other and eventually it didn't turned the way we expected as how those fairy tales ended,it's okay to cry and burst into madness pero hep hep lang, be aware! Don't let those feelings killed down the real you. You are a masterpiece of God and you are designed to give glory to His name. Always seek what pleases God. Don't blame who hurt you. Don't be bitter,be better. Don't let pain change you into worst. It might be hard but atleast try to be thankful to them because they left memories and most specially lessons to you. Forgive them but most specially forgive yourself and move forward. Healing takes time. Moving on is not an overnight process but once those broken pieces were surrendered to the Maker of your heart, He will mend it and mold it back to a perfect shape because He loves you that much and before any other man or woman occupied it, He wants to live and stay there first and forever. Kapag sure na si Lord that He is inside your heart, maglalagay na Siya ng sign sa labas ng heart mu: "Jesus is inside. Ready for occupancy of one man or woman with the heart I am inside too." :D

Eh kamusta naman ang mga nakita na ang "the one o destiny o ang GPC" nila. Though we already found the man who own the ribs where we comes from or the woman where our ribs goes, we are not yet exempted not to get hurt. We should be constantly reminded that a successful relatioship requires a third party and that is God. God is the writer of our love story. At gaya ng mga story sa pelikula o libro, laging may director. So why not let God direct and maneauver how your love story goes. Learn to listen to Him. Wag matigas ang ulo. Listen and obey. Obeying is better than sacrificing. Kapag nasasaktan, pause and pray. Pain is part of living. Pain is essential. Pain is our teacher. Pain is our reminder. Pain is love. At dun natin masusukat ang totoong pagmamahal. When someone broke your heart into pieces yet you still love that person in every tiny bits of your heart, it's called true love. Pwede din bayani. Pwede din martir. At pwedeng gaya din ng pagmamahal
ni God sa atin na though we hurt Him for so many times, nothing changed, He always and still love us.. Getting hurt is really part of loving.  Just like the way God love us. He really loves us that He gave His only begotten son that whoever believes in Him will have eternal life (John 3:16). God loves us that no matter how painful to let Jesus suffered and died for us to have eternal life, He still chose to do it because He truly loves us. This can be the best example of what  I'm talking about true love that would always understand the pain, an Agape love.

#nainspired ako magsulat dahil sa aking personalized cover photo. puputulin ko na. Ang haba na e. Hehe. Till then my dear lovers and friends. Sorry sa ibang grammar, sablay ata. Hehe. Enjoy ! :)

ycelah_1813
11/14/12
11:03 pm

BE PREPARED TO BE SURPRISED ^___^

Three weeks ago since I decided to write. The truth is I have already something on my mind since that time. Suddenly, the thought changed but I decided to use the original title I have since then. I've been inspired by a good news I received from a very good friend of mine. I bet, you were thinking who influenced the idea I have now in my mind. But I am telling you, we will not talk about that person. At the end of this piece, I just hope that our outlooks and attitudes will change as we begin to realize that our Heavenly Father enjoys surprising us with His goodness from on high.

“What a joy. What a blessing. What a surprise. What a God!”

This statement blows off my mind upon hearing the news. To put it modestly, I am more than pleasantly surprised, and thankful to God for His goodness.

I don't know if I am still with the margin of my craft's idea. But allow me to say,that no matter how fast we run, or if we run the wrong way, run in the wrong direction GOD will catch up to us. He will overtake us and set our lives in order. No matter how long and hard we run, we will not be able to outrun the blessings that He has for our lives. I want to tell everyone that God wants to bless us. He is continuously good to us, His children. God wants to surprise us. He wants us to be amazed at the blessings He lays upon our life.

“I can’t wait to see what God is going to do!”

I exclaimed to myself. I began to believe more and more that the best is yet to come. God is about to super size our dreams and surprise us by accomplishing in our lives more than we could ever thinked or asked, hoped or wished for.

“See, I am doing a new thing!” Now it springs up; do you not perceive it?” Isaiah 43:19

God always wants to bless our lives and surprise us with new things to enrich our experience in Him. We need to be conscious. God wants us to stop, take the time to look and actually see and be aware of what He is doing in our lives. The problem is that many times we see things from the human perspective rather than from the eyes of God. Therein lies the problem, it is in the way we perceive the situation that we are in. We only see the dire circumstances and fear a negative outcome. We need to realize that God is always at work on our behalf to surprise us with a positive outcome, with a new hope and a great future.

God promises, “’For I know the plans I have for you,’ declares the LORD, ‘plans to prosper you and not to harm you, plans to give you hope and a future’” (Jeremiah 29:11). However, He also says, “For My thoughts are not your thoughts, neither are your ways My ways” (Isaiah 55:8). We may make our own plans, set our own courses and directions for our lives, and soon discover that we have made a mistake. Not to worry, as long as we are F.R.O.G (fully relying on GOD), He will still make sure that things turn out for our good and His glory.

Then I concluded, God will always surprise us with His goodness even when we misstep. We may get off course, but His direction is always on right target. Finding our way through life is impossible without His guidance. At the back of my mind, I’ve been encouraging myself that I am very sure you do too. Let us learn to trust Him and learn to relax. Everything is going to be alright. Let us start preparing ourselves to be surprise by God’s tremendous blessings. Let our life be blessed beyond our wildest dreams as we enjoy Heavenly surprises from on high.

Keep the faith firing and burning God’s people. :)

TIME CHECKED. TIME TO GO BACK TO WORK. HEHE. My apology if my grammar is not that good. ENJOY READING GUYS! GOD BLESS..^^

ycelah_1813

9/22/11

GOD IS IN CONTROL

Trust HIM.

Trust the FATHER,SON & HOLY SPIRIT,

with those things

that you don't understand, or

that are out of your control.

When you are worried about tomorrow,

GOD IS NOT WORRIED!

HE knows what will happen

if you will trust HIM,

if you will let the SON, JESUS CHRIST,

be in control of your life!

For JESUS guides and protect those

who belong to HIM,

who choose to believe HIS promises.

Have FAITH in GOD.

HIS promises are sure

HIS love never fails

HE is not worried about tomorrow

HE IS IN CONTROL.

PS: Hinde po ako ang sumulat nito. Hehe. This is a poem written by Ken Pilcher, Jr. I just saw while browsing the net. At dahil I am lost and out of nowhere today, I decided to copy and share it to you guys. I don't know if we are on the same shoes. Hopefully, this will help you up and be inspired to go on just the way it did to me.

RELAX ycelah. GOD IS IN CONTROL. :)))

8/16/11

STRANGER'S PILGRIMAGE

Takbo. Lakad. Nagmamadali. Nakikipag unahan. Parang elisi na lumilipad sa kalawakan ang iyong mga hakbang. Parang trumpo ang buong ikaw na paikot ikot at nakikipagsabayan sa busina ng mga pampublikong sasakyan.

Ilang kalye na ba ang iyong nadaanan? Ilang tao na ba ang iyong nakasalamuha at naabutan ng mga kusing na nanjan sa luma mong pantalon? Ilang pagkain ang tinipid mo upang magamit sa ibang lakad ang salaping nasa kalupi mo? Ilang panyo na ba ang nabasa ng pawis o minsan ay ng luha pa? Ilang umaga na gumigising ka na pagod ang katawan? Ilang gabi ang nagdaan na naging abala ka sa pagiisip ng susunod na lalakbayin mo? Ilan na nga ba?

Wala kang inaaksayang sandali sa bawat paglalakbay. Mas madalas gising ang iyong imahinasyaon kesa ipanatag ang katawang lupa at piliting makaidlip kahit saglit habang iyong tinatahak ang mga kalye na minsan ay sobrang sikip, mabaho, mabato o minsan naman ay kaysarap daanan. Kelangan mo magmadali. Kelangan mo maabutan ang susunod na byahe. Kelangan mo maging alerto at alisto. Nanghihina ka pero ni minsan hindi nawala ang mga ngiti sa iyong labi. Oo. May mga negatibong bagay ka na nakakasabay sa iyong paglalakbay pero hindi ka nagpapatalo sa iyong nararamdaman. Ayaw mo mabigo kaya pinipilit mo maging malakas at huwag magpadala sa mga pangyayari. Nakikipagpaligsahan ka sa iyong nararamdaman. Walang lugar para sayo ang mga negatibong pananaw. Ang pagkabigo ay bahagi ng iyong paglalakbay ngunit nagpapatuloy ka pa din sa takbuhin ng iyong buhay.

Nakakapagtaka. Pinahahanga mo ako.

Kailangan mong maging matatag. Ilang ulit ka na bang nadapa sa pag abot ng iyong mga mumunting pangarap? Marami na ring beses at tulad ng paglalakbay, minsan hindi mo maiwasang mapagod. Ngunit dakila ang iyong pagkatao. Sa bawat pagkakadapa mo ay pinipilit mong bumangon. Sa bawat pagkabigo mo ay pinipilit mong bumuo ng panibagong muog na magiging panimula ulit ng iyong pangarap. Nanghihina ka pero sa bawat panghihina ay ibayong kalakasan ang pinampupuno mo. Nasa iyo ang marubdob na damdamin abutin ang mga pangarap mo na pumupukaw sa iyo sa tuwing ikaw ay nakakaisip na sumuko.

Ngunit, higit kitang hinahangaan kaibigan sapagkat nasa iyo ang pananampalataya na hindi ka nag iisa sa paglalakbay mo. Ang iyong pananalig sa ating Maykapal ay siya mong kasama sa oras na nalulungkot ka sa iyong paglalakbay. Naniniwala ka na si Hesus ang iyong sandigan. Tanging sa Kanya ka may kapahingahan. Siya ang dahilan kung bakit nagagawa mo makipagsabayan sa abala at magulong kalye. Nagagawa mo ngumiti sa kabila ng hirap ng buhay sapagkat alam mo na may Diyos ka na hindi ka iiwan ni pababayaan hanggang sa maabot mo ang pangarap mo.

Hanggang sa ngayon, inspirasyon ko pa din ang ‘yong buhay. Nakikita pa din kita na nakikipagsabayan sa madaming tao upang abutin ang iyong pangarap. Naniniwala ako na may plano sayo ang Diyos. Marahil, hindi mo nakikita sa ngayon pero alam ko may hangganan ang hirap mo sa paglalakbay. Maaabot mo din ang pangarap mo. Maaaring ngayon, bukas o sa darating pang mga araw. Mapalad ka sapagkat nagkaroon ka ng pagkakataon na maglakbay na hindi ka nag-iisa. Manalig ka lang sa Diyos.

Magsikap. Magalak. Magpatuloy ka lang.

Takbo. Lakad. Nagmamadali. Nakikipag unahan. Parang elisi na lumilipad sa kalawakan ang iyong mga hakbang. Parang trumpo ang buong ikaw na paikot ikot at nakikipagsabayan sa busina ng mga pampublikong sasakyan.

~ Buwan kasi ng wika ngaun kaya I preferred to write using our language pero english ang title ko.Anu daw yun? hehe.Sorry guys, sobrang nahirapan ako magconstruct ng tagalog sentences. Pagtyagaan nyo na lang intindihin.Kahit ako naguguluhan kase! haha.

Bottomline is: All of us are strangers on our own pilgrimage. Enjoy reading guys. God bless! Hanngang sa muli kong artikulo. Haha. :)))

ycelah_1813

8/11/11

HYMN OF LOVE ^^

I

Hear this song from my heart

Oh Lord, let my lips declare

You are my redeemer

My counselor and strong tower

II

Now and till the end of the world

I will keep praising Your name on High

You are the reason why I am here

Lord unto YOU, I surrender

Refrain

Cause, my heart is in hunger

Dwell in me, let YOUR spirit take over

Use me, mold me as YOU desire

This is my undying prayer

CHORUS

Let YOUR love take me deeper

Jesus, You are my greatest lover

And I love You more and more

Jesus, YOU are my greatest lover

III

And I sing Hallelujah

Oh, King of kings, Lord of Lords

Jesus, You are my Savior

And I’ll be grateful forever

Bridge

Glory to YOUR name

Forever, I love YOU

Praise to YOUR name

Forever, I love YOU

~ Please grant my request.Lagyan mo ng tono to. Its more like a worship song pero pde na din na praise. Bahala ka na. hehe. Make revisions. Cut it down if needed. Change also the title if you want, la na ako maisip kase. Oks Lang sken basta malagyan ng chords. Sana basic keys lang. Baka kaya ko tugtugin..HOHO.HOW I WISH..Thanks in advance. :))

ycelah_1813

8/4/11

LAST CIGARETTE :)

There really comes a time that we have to hit the lowest point in our life. That is a time wherein we are too weak on our own yet too strong to go against the will of GOD. We felt our lives are meaningless but the truth is: the only way to have a meaningful life is to SURRENDER everything to GOD. Today, I got very unusual feelings, and just like the old days, I decided to write what’s on my mind. Just want to share it to you guys. Enjoy reading!

Here, I am on my bended knees

Kneeling before with broken tears

Search me, forgive me JESUS

You know my every ways

I broke YOUR heart all the way

So shame that I’ve been there

And now, I am an inch away

Take me closer to where YOU are

Have mercy on me

Let YOUR will be done

And unto You, I surrender

Be my rock of salvation forever

I want to be with YOU

Renew me, live in me

Cause JESUS I am nothing

Nothing without YOU

I am down to my last cigarette. Hopefully this will be the last stick and I’ll get over on it. I’ll keep on praying. I know God works in ways I cannot see. His love is unfailing and I put my trust to HIM.

~ kung bakit last cigarette ang title..it's for you to go over and think about it. :)))

ycelah_1813

8/3/11

YES! I AM INLOVE.:)

I am back…nainspire ako mag sulat dahil sa latest stat ko! Hehe..

May kumukulit kasi. May nagsusumiksik sa aking isipan. Tinatawag ako ng mga ideya ko. Tinatawag ako upang lumikha ng panibagong obra. Sana lang hindi ako kung saan dalhin nito. Tagal ko na din hindi sumulat. This time I’ll do it half Tagalog half english para cool! =)

Naranasan nyo na ba ang ma- INLOVE? Hindi ba’t kay sarap isipin na may nagpapasaya sa atin at kay kulay ng ating mundo. E ang ma-INLOVE sa KANYA? Kamusta naman un?

Mahirap ipaliwanag pero ang mahulog sa Kanya ng paulit ulit ay napakasayang oportunidad bilang isang nilalang. Kasama nito ay ang buong pagsuko at pagtitiwala natin sa Kanyang mga plano at kaparaanan sa buhay natin. Hindi ito panandalian lang na pwedeng lumipas kundi isa ito sa pinakamakabuluhang karanasan na hinding hindi natin makakalimutan.

Masaya. Masarap. Malungkot. Mahirap. Ito ang mga unang bugso ng emosyon ko noong hinayaan ko na Siya ang magkontrol ng manobela ng aking lakbayin. Nahulog ako sa mas malalim na kahulugan ng buhay ko at ano ang dahilan bakit ako nabubuhay. Nabuksan ang aking isipan sa totoong kulay ng mundo at sa totoong kahulugan ng PAG-IBIG.

I fell in love that night of 1998, and with each passing day, I am reminded of that beautiful companionship and I fall in love all over again. I am able to experience and live out that love simply by sharing it with others, "A new command I give you: Love one another. As I have loved you, so you must love one another," (John 13:34). It is only through my falling in love with my Savior that I am able to understand what life is truly about.

Christ took me into His arms and reminded me that through love, I am able to live out God's will on earth.

Falling in love with Christ also involves continuous selflessness, for in loving Christ, we are called to give of ourselves and carry our crosses. By our suffering and sacrifice, we are able to follow the path to salvation even more earnestly. However, we are not called to love Jesus alone. God desires for us to carry that love to the world, so that others might experience a piece of what true bliss in a never-ending love may feel like. In guiding the world to a new light of love, we are spreading God's Kingdom on earth.

Our falling in love with the Father is just the beginning, for it marks a new chapter of life: a chapter filled with hope.To fall inlove with Him is the sweetest of all.

Stay inlove guys! Inlove with human beings but most specially be INLOVE with the Creator of all human beings! Hehe..:)))

Enjoy reading peepz!

ycelah_1813

7/23/11