"They always say love hurts, bakit sapakan ba ito?"
I can't help myself but to laugh when I read a status in FB from one of my liked fan page that goes like this. My mind is talking and said: "oo nga naman. May sense naman." I'm pretty sure, everyone has their own stories of dealing to love and pain. And all of us has their own opinion when it comes to love and pain. Since this is a democratic country allow me to express my opinion. (Funny! Ang dame ko alam, pati pagiging demokrasyang bansa na walang kamalay malay,isinama ko pa.)
Sabi nila kapag nagmahal ka daw, expect mu na daw na masasaktan ka. Meron din naman nagsabe na kapag true love o God's perfect choice for us hinding hindi na tayo masasaktan. Ang sabe ko naman, whether we love the wrong or right person, we will feel pain. Why? Eh kase buhay tayo, in other words, matter tayo because we occupied space. HAHA, usapang Science ba ito. Pain is part of growing up. Pain is a blessing. Pain is experience. Pain is memory. Kapag nadapa tayo, malamang masakit un, minsan magkakapeklat at minsan kahit anong gawin pahid mawala lang ang peklat, may maiiwang alaala. Alaala na posibleng malungkot o kaya posibleng katawa tawa pero isa lang sigurado ako may natutunan tayo.
Love is a gift from God. We love because He first loved us (1 John 4:19). Kaya kung nasasaktan ka ngaun o nasaktan ka at masasaktan ka because you choose to love and be loved, well congratulations sa atin. Don't shutter down the door of your heart just because somebody stolen the key or didn't return anymore to open it. Bakit? Pwede naman maghanap ng nagduduplicate ng key. O kaya mas maganda palitan na lang ang door knob para muli magbukas di ba? When we invested feelings to other and eventually it didn't turned the way we expected as how those fairy tales ended,it's okay to cry and burst into madness pero hep hep lang, be aware! Don't let those feelings killed down the real you. You are a masterpiece of God and you are designed to give glory to His name. Always seek what pleases God. Don't blame who hurt you. Don't be bitter,be better. Don't let pain change you into worst. It might be hard but atleast try to be thankful to them because they left memories and most specially lessons to you. Forgive them but most specially forgive yourself and move forward. Healing takes time. Moving on is not an overnight process but once those broken pieces were surrendered to the Maker of your heart, He will mend it and mold it back to a perfect shape because He loves you that much and before any other man or woman occupied it, He wants to live and stay there first and forever. Kapag sure na si Lord that He is inside your heart, maglalagay na Siya ng sign sa labas ng heart mu: "Jesus is inside. Ready for occupancy of one man or woman with the heart I am inside too." :D
Eh kamusta naman ang mga nakita na ang "the one o destiny o ang GPC" nila. Though we already found the man who own the ribs where we comes from or the woman where our ribs goes, we are not yet exempted not to get hurt. We should be constantly reminded that a successful relatioship requires a third party and that is God. God is the writer of our love story. At gaya ng mga story sa pelikula o libro, laging may director. So why not let God direct and maneauver how your love story goes. Learn to listen to Him. Wag matigas ang ulo. Listen and obey. Obeying is better than sacrificing. Kapag nasasaktan, pause and pray. Pain is part of living. Pain is essential. Pain is our teacher. Pain is our reminder. Pain is love. At dun natin masusukat ang totoong pagmamahal. When someone broke your heart into pieces yet you still love that person in every tiny bits of your heart, it's called true love. Pwede din bayani. Pwede din martir. At pwedeng gaya din ng pagmamahal
ni God sa atin na though we hurt Him for so many times, nothing changed, He always and still love us.. Getting hurt is really part of loving. Just like the way God love us. He really loves us that He gave His only begotten son that whoever believes in Him will have eternal life (John 3:16). God loves us that no matter how painful to let Jesus suffered and died for us to have eternal life, He still chose to do it because He truly loves us. This can be the best example of what I'm talking about true love that would always understand the pain, an Agape love.
#nainspired ako magsulat dahil sa aking personalized cover photo. puputulin ko na. Ang haba na e. Hehe. Till then my dear lovers and friends. Sorry sa ibang grammar, sablay ata. Hehe. Enjoy ! :)
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11/14/12
11:03 pm
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