LOVE. LOVE. LOVE

LOVE is a FUNNY THING.You expect it to be easy. You expect it to be a world of roses and laughs and perfect moments that you find only in movies. You expect him or her to always say the right thing, and always know exactly how you feel, or exactly how to react to it. You expect him or her to calm you down when you’re yelling or to chase you when you run away. You expect so much that you feel entirely, utterly defeated when something doesn’t exactly match up with all your plans. But that’s the thing. Love ISN'T A PLAN. It doesn’t have a certain beginning and it certainly has no end or visible finish line to those deeply in it.

LOVE is so INCREDIBLY MESSY. People around you can’t comprehend why you do the things you do, or why you fight so hard for something that seems to cause you so much pain, because simply, they can’t see. They can’t see the invisible ring of insanity that surrounds you when you’re in love. It’s inconvenient and painful and devastating at times, but we can’t live without it. What you don’t learn is how hard love is. How much work it takes. How much of ourselves we have to put into it. How it isn’t worth it until we are complete and utter idiots about it.

LOVE isn’t him or her calming you down when you yell. It’s him or her yelling, just as loud, just as hard, right back at you, right in your face to wake you up and to keep you grounded. It isn’t him or her bringing you roses everyday or cute things that make your relationship appear more presentable.  It's a two-way relationship. It's a give and take scenarios.
You have to remember that with love, you’re not the only one involved. You’ve unknowingly put your life, your heart into the palms of another person’s hand and said “here. Do what you will. Mash it into mince meat. Or forget I ever handed it to you. As long as you have it.”

LOVE makes us CRAZY. It makes us invisible and it erases all the lines that we shouldn’t cross. Because love isn’t about fencing ourselves in; feeling safe, feeling sure about the future. It’s about scaring the crap out of every nerve in our body, but pushing forward anyway. Because all the fighting and all the tears and all the uncertainty is worth it. And it’s a lot better than being 100% happy without someone to show us that there is a world of difference between feeling ‘happy’ and feeling 'whole.'

LIFE is a challenge, and so is LOVE. Things never come easy in life so as with love also; if they do, memories are rare, suffering won’t get you through the tough times, there’s nothing to look back on. There’s no mistakes that you learn from. In the end, it’s all worth it.


HAPPY HEART'S DAY EVERYONE.

ENJOY READING.
TUMATANGGAP AKO NG VILOENT REACTIONS kung mali ang mga nasabi ko! All opinions will be highly appreciated. Sorry sa mga terms. Super exaggerated. This is how I do writing. O.A. Parang ung writer lang! O.A. din. haha..SOOOOOOOOOBRAAAAAAAAAng namiss ko ang magsulat. PERIOD. >.

ycelah_1813
02/14/12

Late ko napost! hehe..:)))