LOVE. LOVE. LOVE

LOVE is a FUNNY THING.You expect it to be easy. You expect it to be a world of roses and laughs and perfect moments that you find only in movies. You expect him or her to always say the right thing, and always know exactly how you feel, or exactly how to react to it. You expect him or her to calm you down when you’re yelling or to chase you when you run away. You expect so much that you feel entirely, utterly defeated when something doesn’t exactly match up with all your plans. But that’s the thing. Love ISN'T A PLAN. It doesn’t have a certain beginning and it certainly has no end or visible finish line to those deeply in it.

LOVE is so INCREDIBLY MESSY. People around you can’t comprehend why you do the things you do, or why you fight so hard for something that seems to cause you so much pain, because simply, they can’t see. They can’t see the invisible ring of insanity that surrounds you when you’re in love. It’s inconvenient and painful and devastating at times, but we can’t live without it. What you don’t learn is how hard love is. How much work it takes. How much of ourselves we have to put into it. How it isn’t worth it until we are complete and utter idiots about it.

LOVE isn’t him or her calming you down when you yell. It’s him or her yelling, just as loud, just as hard, right back at you, right in your face to wake you up and to keep you grounded. It isn’t him or her bringing you roses everyday or cute things that make your relationship appear more presentable.  It's a two-way relationship. It's a give and take scenarios.
You have to remember that with love, you’re not the only one involved. You’ve unknowingly put your life, your heart into the palms of another person’s hand and said “here. Do what you will. Mash it into mince meat. Or forget I ever handed it to you. As long as you have it.”

LOVE makes us CRAZY. It makes us invisible and it erases all the lines that we shouldn’t cross. Because love isn’t about fencing ourselves in; feeling safe, feeling sure about the future. It’s about scaring the crap out of every nerve in our body, but pushing forward anyway. Because all the fighting and all the tears and all the uncertainty is worth it. And it’s a lot better than being 100% happy without someone to show us that there is a world of difference between feeling ‘happy’ and feeling 'whole.'

LIFE is a challenge, and so is LOVE. Things never come easy in life so as with love also; if they do, memories are rare, suffering won’t get you through the tough times, there’s nothing to look back on. There’s no mistakes that you learn from. In the end, it’s all worth it.


HAPPY HEART'S DAY EVERYONE.

ENJOY READING.
TUMATANGGAP AKO NG VILOENT REACTIONS kung mali ang mga nasabi ko! All opinions will be highly appreciated. Sorry sa mga terms. Super exaggerated. This is how I do writing. O.A. Parang ung writer lang! O.A. din. haha..SOOOOOOOOOBRAAAAAAAAAng namiss ko ang magsulat. PERIOD. >.

ycelah_1813
02/14/12

Late ko napost! hehe..:)))

45 THINGS A GIRL WANT, BUT WON'T ASK FOR:

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1. Touch her waist.
2. Actually talk to her.
3. Share secrets with her.
4. Give her your jacket.
5. Kiss her slowly.

Are you remembering this?
6. Hug her.
7. Hold her.
8. Laugh with her.
9. Invite her somewhere.
10. Hangout with her and your friends together.

KEEP READING ..
11. Smile with her.
12. Take pictures with her.
13. Pull her onto your lap.
14. When she says she loves you more, deny it. Fight back.
15. When her friends say “I love her more than you”, deny it. Fight back and hug her tight so she can’t get to her friends. It makes her feel loved.

Are you thinking of someone?
16. Always hug her and say I love you whenever you see her.
17. Kiss her unexpectedly.
18. Hug her from behind around the waist.
19. Tell her she’s beautiful.
20. Tell her the way you feel about her.

One last thing you need to do to show her you actually do mean it.
21. Open doors for her, walk her to her car - it makes her feel protected, plus it never hurts to act like a gentleman.
22. Tell her she’s your everything - only if you mean it.
23. If it seems like there is something wrong, ask her - if she denies something being wrong, it means SHE DOESN’T WANT TO TALK ABOUT IT - so just hug her.

24. Make her feel loved.
25. Kiss her in front of OTHER girls you know!

WE MIGHT DENY IT BUT WE ACTUALLY LIKE AND KINDA WANT YOU TO TICKLE US ..
26. Don’t lie to her.
27. DON’T cheat on her.
28. Take her ANYWHERE she wants.
29. Text message or call her in the morning and tell her have a good day at school, and how much you miss her.
30. Be there for her whenever she needs you, and even when she doesn’t need you, just be there so she’ll know that she can always count on you.

ARE YOU STILL READING THIS? YOU BETTER, BECAUSE IT’S IMPORTANT.
31. Hold her close when she’s cold so she can hold you too.
32. When you are alone hold her close and kiss her.
33. Kiss her on the cheek; (it will give her the hint that you want to kiss her).
34. While in the movies, put your arm around her and then she will automatically put her head on your shoulder, then lean in and tilt her chin up and kiss her lightly.

35. Don’t ever tell her to leave even jokingly or act like you’re mad. If she’s upset, comfort her.

REMEMBER ALL THESE THINGS WHEN YOU ARE WITH HER NEXT ..
36. When people diss her, stand up for her.
37. Look deep into her eyes and tell her you love her.
38. Lay down under the stars and put her head on your chest so she can listen to the steady beat of your heart, link your fingers together while you whisper to her as she rests her eyes and listens to you.
39. When walking next to each other grab her hand.
40. When you hug her, hold her in your arms as long as possible.

MAKE SURE SHE KNOWS SHES LOVED.
41. Call or text her at night to wish her sweet dreams.
42. Comfort her when she cries and wipe away her tears.
43. Take her for long walks at night.
44. Always remind her how much you love her.
45. Sit on top of her and tell her how much you love her and then bend down to her face and kiss her while you’re sitting on her.

You’ll never know when she needs just a little more love .. ♥!

COOL! haha. :)

yay! what time is it?  10:31 pm na, yet I'm still awake. People kept on bragging on me why I kept on getting thinner. WAAAhhh! Probably eto ang dahilan. Staying too much late in the night because of  doing stuffs like these. They might say or you might say "non-sense"..pero I tried naman to discipline myself..eventually mababago din to.

Laptop is back because I need to use on my ka ek ekan, chuvaness na pagiging kuracha.
Kawawang laptop kase gamit na gamit saken. HAHA! Eto binilhan siya ni Pretzels ng cooling pad. :)

mabilisan lang to..
babye!

just want to post.
:)

It's not the effort that makes the girl smile. It's the willingness of the guy to make those crazy efforts just to make her smile. :)

Ang “EFFORT” ay kasama sa ingredients ng relasyon. 

Sa bawat relasyon, hindi talaga mawawala na ang isa kanila lang ang nage-effort at yung isa ay hindi.

Pero dapat hindi isinusumbat sa isa’t isa kung ano yung mga nagawa mong effort para sa mahal mo.

Kasi ang effort ay may kasamang pagkukusa. Iwasan mong isumbat sa mahal mo kung ano yung mga nagawa mo para sa kaniya dahil hindi ka naman niya inutusan para mag-effort ka.Kusa mong ginawa yan para sa kanya. Oo, nagpakahirap ka dahil mahal mo siya. Pero kung talagang mahal mo siya hindi mo isusumbat sa kanya kung ano yung pagkukulang niya lalo ang hindi nya pag-appreciate. Dapat marunong tayo makuntento.

Hindi mawawala ang expectations sa relationship. Maghahangad talaga tayo na maibalik yung effort na binigay mo,kung hindi man tumbasan dapat mas lamangan.

Ano ba ang problema? APPRECIATION.
 

Minsan kasi sa sobrang taas ng expectations sa binuhos natin na effort, hindi na natin matukoy kung ano ba yung inaasahan mong appreciation na manggagaling sa taong pinagpaguran mo.

Small or big things, appreciate it, accept it. Kahit simpleng 'thank you' lang ang sinabi nya. Maging sapat na yun sayo, kasi may mga tao talaga na hindi expressive sa pagpapakita ng appreciation.

EXPECTATION leads to DISAPPOINTMENT.

Pagukulan mo ng atensyon kung ano ba talaga yung makapagpapasaya sa partner mo. Hindi yung napulot mo lang sa ibang tao ang ganito or ganyan na idea ay gagawin mo na rin sa partner mo. Para sa huli, walang panunumbat na magaganap, kasi hindi ka naman umasa, kaya wala ka rin dapat ika-disappoint.

Mag-EFFORT ka dahil mahal mo siya.
Mag-EFFORT ka ng walang inaasahang balik.
Dahil ang TUNAY na PAG-IBIG ay hindi naghihintay ng kapalit

You found me when I wasn't looking..

Is it obvious to you

When you walk into a room

Your face is all I see

And my heart races so fast

I never knew a rush to feel like that

Every time you're touching me

 

I never did believe in anything

I couldn't hold between my fingers

But the way you make me feel

It's just so real the way it lingers

 

I get lost inside your stare

Lost when you're not there

And everything I have

Doesn't mean a thing if it's without you

 

If it's a dream

Don't wake me up

I'll scream if this isn't love

If bein' lost means never knowin' how it feels without you

I wanna stay lost forever

I wanna stay lost forever.. with you.

No this feelin' doesn't end

It's with me everywhere I am

Hope it never goes away

It's like defying gravity

I'm losing all control in bein' free

And I always wanna stay

 

I never thought that I'd let go long enough

To fall for someone deeply

Who had the power to erase my fears

And find me so completely

 

 

Don't tell me where we're goin'

I don't wanna know

I like the mystery

I can't believe we've come this far

So far away from where we started off

You found me when I wasn't lookin'

You found me..

 

PAUNAWA: copy paste ko lang to from one note of my friend in facebook. this is not my owen article.


YUNG LALAKING . . . . . . . . 

Matatawag nyang bestfriend at kalaro :))




Nandiyan palagi para sa kanya ..




Palaging may surprise kahit walang okasyon ..




Hahawakan kamay nya kahit may tampuhan o away..




Isasayaw ka kahit walang music..




kaya kang ipasan kahit mabigat..




kapag masyado ka nang madaldal .. ILOVEYOU padin sasabihin nya..




Kaya kang protektahan..





Lalaking napipilit kang magpuyat para makapag usap at makapag-kwentuhan kayo ..




Magagalit sayo pero hindi ka padin iiwan..




Lalaking iiyak para sayo kasi mahal ka nya.




AT HIGIT SA LAHAT ...

Lalaking ipapanalangin ka, na sana ikaw na! ♥

TRUE LOVE would always understand pain! ;)

 

                                 "They always say love hurts, bakit sapakan ba ito?"

I can't help myself but to laugh when I read a status in FB  from one of my liked fan page that goes like this. My mind is talking and said: "oo nga naman. May sense naman." I'm pretty sure, everyone has their own stories of dealing to love and pain. And all of us has their own opinion when it comes to love and pain. Since this is a democratic country allow me to express my opinion. (Funny! Ang dame ko alam, pati pagiging demokrasyang bansa na walang kamalay malay,isinama ko pa.)

Sabi nila kapag nagmahal ka daw, expect mu na daw na masasaktan ka. Meron din naman nagsabe na kapag true love o God's perfect choice for us hinding hindi na tayo masasaktan. Ang sabe ko naman, whether we love the wrong or right person, we will feel pain. Why? Eh kase buhay tayo, in other words, matter tayo because we occupied space. HAHA, usapang Science ba ito. Pain is part of growing up. Pain is a blessing. Pain is experience. Pain is memory. Kapag nadapa tayo, malamang masakit un, minsan magkakapeklat at minsan kahit anong gawin pahid mawala lang ang peklat, may maiiwang alaala. Alaala na posibleng malungkot o kaya posibleng katawa tawa pero isa lang sigurado ako may natutunan tayo.

Love is a gift from God. We love because He first loved us (1 John 4:19). Kaya kung nasasaktan ka ngaun o nasaktan ka at masasaktan ka because you choose to love and be loved, well congratulations sa atin. Don't shutter down the door of your heart just because somebody stolen the key or didn't return anymore to open it. Bakit? Pwede naman maghanap ng nagduduplicate ng key. O kaya mas maganda palitan na lang ang door knob para muli magbukas di ba? When we invested feelings to other and eventually it didn't turned the way we expected as how those fairy tales ended,it's okay to cry and burst into madness pero hep hep lang, be aware! Don't let those feelings killed down the real you. You are a masterpiece of God and you are designed to give glory to His name. Always seek what pleases God. Don't blame who hurt you. Don't be bitter,be better. Don't let pain change you into worst. It might be hard but atleast try to be thankful to them because they left memories and most specially lessons to you. Forgive them but most specially forgive yourself and move forward. Healing takes time. Moving on is not an overnight process but once those broken pieces were surrendered to the Maker of your heart, He will mend it and mold it back to a perfect shape because He loves you that much and before any other man or woman occupied it, He wants to live and stay there first and forever. Kapag sure na si Lord that He is inside your heart, maglalagay na Siya ng sign sa labas ng heart mu: "Jesus is inside. Ready for occupancy of one man or woman with the heart I am inside too." :D

Eh kamusta naman ang mga nakita na ang "the one o destiny o ang GPC" nila. Though we already found the man who own the ribs where we comes from or the woman where our ribs goes, we are not yet exempted not to get hurt. We should be constantly reminded that a successful relatioship requires a third party and that is God. God is the writer of our love story. At gaya ng mga story sa pelikula o libro, laging may director. So why not let God direct and maneauver how your love story goes. Learn to listen to Him. Wag matigas ang ulo. Listen and obey. Obeying is better than sacrificing. Kapag nasasaktan, pause and pray. Pain is part of living. Pain is essential. Pain is our teacher. Pain is our reminder. Pain is love. At dun natin masusukat ang totoong pagmamahal. When someone broke your heart into pieces yet you still love that person in every tiny bits of your heart, it's called true love. Pwede din bayani. Pwede din martir. At pwedeng gaya din ng pagmamahal
ni God sa atin na though we hurt Him for so many times, nothing changed, He always and still love us.. Getting hurt is really part of loving.  Just like the way God love us. He really loves us that He gave His only begotten son that whoever believes in Him will have eternal life (John 3:16). God loves us that no matter how painful to let Jesus suffered and died for us to have eternal life, He still chose to do it because He truly loves us. This can be the best example of what  I'm talking about true love that would always understand the pain, an Agape love.

#nainspired ako magsulat dahil sa aking personalized cover photo. puputulin ko na. Ang haba na e. Hehe. Till then my dear lovers and friends. Sorry sa ibang grammar, sablay ata. Hehe. Enjoy ! :)

ycelah_1813
11/14/12
11:03 pm