PIPI AT BINGI ^^

Naisip ko lang ano nga ba meron at tayo ay may bibig at tenga? Nakakatawang tanong no? At bakit kaya kelangang dalawa ang tenga at isa lang ang bibig.

Most of the time we are carried away by our emotion. Let me tell you situations that I am sure you will relate, maybe not 100% but I'm gonna bet at least 1% you will.

During a hard fight, we talked much and thought we are abandoned, betrayed and we are looser. We talk, and talk, and talk and talk and talk and talk. We released our tensions verbally without thinking that we might get hurt the other party. We became deaf and self centered without knowing that maybe we need to weigh things out and let the other side express his/her own.

For instance, in a group discussion where you need to work on something and make a deliverable, sometime we got unconscious and tend to express what's on our mind too much. We talk talk, share share and choose to believe what we want without taking into consideration the others opinions. We never allow others to talk or if we allow, we don't listen.

BORDERLINE: We keep on talking too much and listening little. I guess this attitude will make our altitude not that well. We need to know when to speak and when to listen. When someone is talking, lend your ears. So when you want to talk also, others will do that too.Just like with a text message I got from a friend that co incidentally relates with what i am talking now.A BOOMERANG PRINCIPLE: If we throw anger, anger comes back ;if we throw love, love comes back ;if we throw negativity, negativity comes back, if we throw positivity, positivity comes back.

LIFE IS A MIRROR, IT SHOWS TO US WHAT WE DID TO OTHERS AND IT TEACHES US THAT WHAT WE SOW IS WHAT WE REAP. (Galatians 6:7-10).

NGAUN, ALAM KO NA KUNG BAKIT ISA LANG ANG BIBIG AT DALAWA ANG TENGA. Isa kasi para hindi tayo masyado magsasalita at sa tuwing tayo ay magsasalita ay iingatan natin. Dalawa kasi para mas madalas tayo makinig. People who listen more are smarter than people who talks too much.Pero masama din naman kapag tagapakinig lang kaya life should be always balance.

(HAHAHA! natatawa ako sa sarili ko habang sinusulat ko to. Di ko kasi sure kun tama ang spelling ko ng tenga..ANU NGA BA???). Kaya pati title ko ay ganyan..:))

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4/5/11